By C.J. Lloyd, August 30, 2024

The idea that we should not depend on any one person or thing except God appears in various places in scripture. This concept is often connected to the broader biblical teachings on trust, idolatry, and community. Below are five reasons God emphasizes this through his word.

First, trust in God alone: The Bible frequently encourages believers to place their ultimate trust in God rather than in humans, wealth, or worldly powers. For instance, Proverbs 3:5 says, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding.” This teaching emphasizes that God is the only truly reliable source of guidance, strength, and provision. Dependence on anything else can lead to disappointment because human beings and material things are inherently fallible and impermanent.

Second, avoiding idolatry: The Bible warns against idolatry, which involves placing anything—whether a person, an object, or an idea—above or on par with God. This can include dependence on others for things that should be sought from God, such as ultimate security, purpose, or identity. Isaiah 2:22 advises, “Take no account of man, whose breath of life is in his nostrils; For why should he be esteemed?”

Third, personal responsibility and growth: Scripture encourages individuals to take responsibility for their spiritual growth and relationship with God. While community and relationships are essential, there’s a balance between mutual support and unhealthy dependence. Galatians 6:5 states, “For each one will bear his own load,” suggesting that while we help each other, we each have a personal responsibility to work hard and make away with the gifts God has given.

Fourth, community and mutual support: While the Bible advises against dependency on any single individual, it strongly supports interdependence within the community of believers. The New Testament is filled with exhortations to help one another, such as in 1 Thessalonians 5:11, “Therefore, encourage one another and build one another up, just as you also are doing.” The idea is that while the community can provide support, we are to all provide it mutually, and no one should be taking advantage of the gifts of God or the community.

Fifth, freedom in Christ: Dependence on Christ is seen as true freedom. Galatians 5:1 says, “It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery.” This freedom includes being free from the need to depend on anything or anyone else for our sense of worth, purpose, or salvation.

These teachings collectively encourage believers to seek a balanced life where their ultimate dependence is on God and engage in healthy, supportive relationships with others.